Email me anytime. I know that feeling, and it's bad.. have you interviewed any attorneys? I don't know what city you are in, but if you want you can email me. I'm related to a family law judge so I may be able to give you the names of some good ones. Gosh mine was a frightening guy!!!!
The more prepared you are for this the better off you will be. It will help give you a sense of control and direction. Get some books on divorce and do some research. I've got one book that's a "must-have" for you. I'll give you the name off-list. Wouldn't want your husband to know this stuff!
There is no arriving, ever. It is all a continual becoming.
