The kids know he is seeing OW. Or at least my 10 year old does. Because it was my 10 yo who saw them kiss and he had to sit down and explain it to him. I do think that I need to tell him we both need to sit down and explain the whole thing to the kids. I think not today or this week, will ask him when he plans on filing divorce? I do not want to file, he wants it, he is moving toward it, I am just dealing with the hand that has been dealt me. He needs to file.
