So I guess I should provide some backfill as well.... Originally, she asked me to move out. I had agreed and was going to stay at a buddies house for a while. After doing some research, I felt that wasn't the right thing to do from a CS/Custody perspective so I refused. We are in separate rooms now, but she wants to be physically separated from me. After the first couple of days, I've gone into "I just want you to be happy mode" even though this stuff is killing me. We actually walked around room to room last night picking what stuff she was taking and what stuff was staying here. BRUTAL. Another reason I was to file was for the "one throat to choke" approach. We aren't very well financially, so we couldn't both hire Atty's. Again, not making excuses (maybe I am), just laying the background. I believe she's fully aware that I'm not happy about this..I just see this as a key move.