I wonder HD...anywhere in that conversation did sex come up? I think the time to bring it up is when she has let her guard down...perhaps not a huge conversation right now, but would like to know her thoughts about it and does she realize how important it is to you and to the wholeness of your marriage. She says she wants to be with you forever, but does she think you will be able to continue on the path you are on...non-sexually? What did she say about the sex moratorium?