OMG (that's Oh My God) what a lame excuse. Agreed, if she wants this then you are not the bad guy for not helping her throw in the towel!
Keeping from doing what she want? Jar, you have got to be kidding? Again, she is 26 not 2. If you want to act like an adult you better consider the consequences of your actions. We all have, NOW anyway.
Dude, dont let her talk YOU into doing something you dont want out of wanting to look good in her eyes. This may be the thing that actually makes you look good in her eyes, i.e. leaving her to do what she wants to do / not do. Full Stop.
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Me: 46 Wife: 39 D: 13 S: 11, 9, 7 Bomb 3.2.07, Sep Same Day, D papers 11.1.07 Current Status - Wants to take me through Discovery, I will go to prison first.