Aud,
I was just having the most awful morning, thought I'd check the forum and just read what you wrote. Your words are incredibly reassuring.

I have zero trust in my H and I feel like a total idiot for giving him another chance. All I can think about is how he is probably a duplicitous person at his core, and I am once again jumping in front of a truck trying to make it work. Bad morning.

I read your thread and I can't imagine my H doing even 1/2 of those things to make our R good. I am so blessed to read about someone who seems to be on the other side of the mountain. I truly hope and pray that your H keeps at it, and loves you deeply for your strength and faithfulness. Your kids will be forever blessed by your dedication.

Thanks for your kind words!
The Girl


Me: 34
H: 39
M: 11 yrs (7th year was HELL)
3 daughters
Survived Affair, 6 month separation
Rebuilt marriage
Currently stuck