I hate to say "I told you so" but...I said that if HD behaved in a manner that was "deliberate" but not "brutal" the relationship would improve and stabilize but in a non-sexual manner. The bunny now feels safe with Daddy. Daddy validated bunny's fear that most men are rapists but he reassured her that he didn't mean to scare her into thinking that he might be one by touching her breast. It's even possible that bunny will approach Daddy to cuddle and make love. However, Daddy better be very careful not to even think the word "f*ck" while the cuddle-love is going on. In case anybody wants to tell me again that I'm off my rocker in what I'm suggesting, here is the level of "brutality" that I think HD might consider employing. He might just say to MsHD "I like to f*ck. A lot." Also, I'm not trying to give the impression that there is anything wrong with making love or cuddling or any sweet honest expression of emotional connection. I've got a bunny too. I just want everybody on this BB to have every kind of intimacy possible in their relationships.


"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver