Jim,

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Help him learn to talk about his feelings more


When I saw your post, it hit home. When my h and I had our big fight, he said he wanted out of our marriage and felt like killing me. Today. he told me I have got too angry when he said that and I escalated the argument too much. He said he was merely expressing his feelings like a counselor years ago told him he needs to do.

What a crock...I don't think you should express feelings of ever wanting to kill someone or wanting a divorce unless a person wants to be taken seriously.

Judy