Ironically, he can't stand the thought of me with another man! He told my daughter that he would *flip out* if that ever happened. I don't want to play stupid games and try to make him jealous, though. Maybe a compromise somewhere between GAL and *make him jealous*?
I don't know. That worked with my husband. Keep looking sexy and if you don't feel comfortable having sex with your husband don't... be unavailable. You don't have to tell him what you are doing, who you are seeing, just be evaisive. That's not a game. Your life isn't his business right now, and flirting with OM doesn't mean you are sleeping with them. Let him see, hear and imagine what he's missing.
And don't think OW doesn't "play games" to manipulate him.
There is no arriving, ever. It is all a continual becoming.
