Thanks for the tips. Couple issues we are really battling with right now; she caught me reading an email of hers. really pissed about that. But, I think she's more pissed in the fact that I wont move out. She thinks that I should move out asap, but I told her she was the WAW and its her decision to walk away, she should move out. I told her I wasnt leaving the house and neither were the kids. She's pissed about this obviously because it's not going to plan. Am I right to hold the ground on this or will it make it tougher to reconcilliate in the end? I think I hold the 'time' cards on this and if she's away and the kids are here, she might see the light after awhile. But with me out, its out of sight/out of mind.