Let me give you some WAW insight. Your W is confused, hurt, probably angry. This is a tough time for her too. Do not file anything right away. You are way to early in this game to be giving up. Filing now will send the wrong message. It will say to her that you want this separation and divorce as well. If its not what you want then just let things be for a while and see where it leads. Give her time and space. You cannot control her or her actions regarding OM. Yes its awful to be here and going through this but you can make progress even if it seems hopeless. Try another MC if you didn't like the last one. Sometimes it takes more than one try. Read some of the other sitch's on here...lots of good advice.
Don't give up!
Me: 30 EX-H: 37 DD: 5 Separated 6/07. MC for months, EX-H quit MC. Divorce Final 8/14/08. Trying to move on with new life.
