careful, there, agent99, careful. sounds like things aren't quite where you want them...honestly I wouldn't be too available. oh hell, I'd probabaly do exactly what you are doing, but just be careful, okay?
Yeah, I hear ya. For the most part I feel like we have made forward progress.
No, he isn't seeing a counselor. He'll tell me that he is "keeping himself busy" and I've said "If you keep yourself so busy, how is it that you are 'thinking about' things?" and he emphatically says that he is.
He had a rough year at work where he was pretty much checked out. I mean, he did his job and all that, but he made some mistakes and was obviously not very committed to it. Last week he told me how he told his manager (during the yearly review) that he was now recommitting and was going to really give it his all. I quipped "I just long for the day that you say that to me". And at first he didn't get it (his brain was still in 'job mode') and then it dawned on him and he said "ya might, rabbit. ya might."
So, that's much better than "I don't want to lead you on." ....right? You are correct in saying that things aren't where I want them to be,though.
Hey, Morgan, I wanted to let you know that I have been watching your sitch. I've kept quiet because I don't think I have any sort of perspective on the matter of sex. But, I will ask this--are condoms being used? I could be playing russian roulette myself in that I have not instigated the use of condoms. I am believing that he hasn't cheated; I know that he has been busy with work, and then he's been with me on the weekends.
Morgan, I know condoms kinda rain on the 'passion parade' and really bring back into focus the reality of the sitch, but since there is a known other woman, are you being careful?
Me-43 H-46 M 12 yrs 7/09 T 15 2 grown kids bomb 7/05/07 H moved out 8/04/07 11/22/09 told him I quit;let's get ball rolling Mid Dec- he isn't sure he wants D End 2/2010-Starting to consider piecing
