Wow - this is too spooky for words. While starting to think about sending that email to H. I got an email - you know one of the those chain emails - one for good luck. If I forwarded it to 5 people, with a wish for myself, my wish would come true. Well I don't usually forward those things, think they're stupid. But I did it anyway wishing for some contact form H.

Well, I got my wish. Within 5 min I turned on my phone and there was a TM from H (didn't know he knew how) asking "Can I have Sparky for a couple of days?". Yeah, nothing to get excited about, but at least it gave me an in to reply, "Yes, ru ok?"

So now I was able to take a baby step without having to initiate.


In4ride
Me 50, H 55, M 17 yrs
1st Bomb Drop 12/7/03
Separated mostly in house
Come back together/H breaks back 9/04
Piecing, surgeries, recovery, H retires
2nd Bomb Drop 9/3/07 H moves out 20 min later