Money has always been an issue for us. She has her own account and we both agreed that I shouldn't have to pay for her atty. She can't afford an atty on what she makes, so we would be going through my atty. So far everything is civil and I don't have a problem with that.. if it does get ugly, that's when I will recommend she get her own. She wants to move out and needs the CS that a separation will provide to do so. I don't want to separate, but I want to keep her happy.