Quoting lostlove: yes you read me correctly h is now willing to go to c. he will meet with him first alone (if that's ok with c) and go from there.
Wow, I have to agree that was huge!
I would say don't change plan about the lawyer. Go see him and get your questions answered. Don't let yourself hang in there. But this is some good will from your H that he really cares; he just did not know how.
Quoting lostlove:I am a bit bummed that after all that talking we both just did...I didn't get a hug..but I understand h has yet learned to speak my language.
I would like to say that it takes a while. Mo boss and I exchanged some of his experience going to MC. It took him a while, but now he realizes that he needs to spend time to talk to his W each day, even though he has just turned on the TV watching the DVD he just rented. He said that was the best "gift" has to her. That was after going to C a year ago when he was "loves his W but not in love with her". People change; even your H could change. IT does take time and effort, from both of you...
LL, let me say I am very touched by what has been happening, and hope things work out in some way that both of you would be happy at the end...
