back to square -1 or -10000

[cat03]

Thanks for your support Frank, it is just like imLIN said, until she gets paid she wont' stop hounding my H, somehow she found out his new cell and has been asking him when she'll get paid.

My H overwhelms easily (adhd trait) and this threat about loosing his job has turned him into a nervous wreck. He admits it's his own fault, I dont' say "it's ok honey" just listen to him, he's facing it on his own. I am supportive to an extent, telling him I believe he can improve at work, but I'm not trying to ease that pain which he brought upon himself (and me).