Thanks Mkultra. I have decided I do need to get some books on working with kids on this. I do not react in front of them, and have been very good at not letting them see these things. My H is not considering my feelings, but it also comes down to the fact that we both are their parents and we need to agree on stuff. He agrees to that until it comes to the point where he wants to do what he wants to do. I need to get some books that he can read that will show him that the children will act this way, but that it will affect them later.
So do not want to see him today. Today is my S12 birthday and we are supposed to go out to dinner as a family.
