LL. I am so sad for your feelings right now..I am not going to get on a soap box..I have no right to, but please listen to what Jim just said...it sounds like your h is soooo confused and you said yourself he is sorry, he is hurting...if he really wanted you out of his life..then he should be happy that you are doing it for him. Maybe more time apart is what you both really need..I will say a prayer for you both.