*************************** Light does not conquer darkness by pushing the darkness out of the way. Rather, the light comes into the darkness and transforms it with brilliant, positive energy.
In the same way, the obstacles in life are not conquered by fighting them on their own terms or attempting to push them out of the way. The best way to move past a difficult situation is to transform it with positive, productive energy.
No matter how much you push against the darkness it will not go anywhere. Yet the moment you shine your light, the darkness is no more.
When you fight against your problems, all it usually accomplishes is to make them stronger and give them more validity. That's certainly not what you would ever intend.
Instead, seek to transform those problems, those difficult situations, by virtue of your own positive values and efforts. Focusing on what you're working toward is far better than being obsessed with whatever you think you're against.
Rather than struggling against the situation, give the best you have to it. Rather than fighting darkness with more darkness, transform that darkness by letting your light shine.
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W and I had a relaxing wknd, no fights, no arguments, nothing whatsover. We didnt do too much since it rained most of the weekend. W bought us dinner and we had dinner together. This has not changed. W still thinking of moving out in approx 18 days. Still keep on saying that 'whenever she gets her own apt bla bla bla..' I keep on saying, 'I will be spending the night bla bla bla..'
No talk of OM, no phone calls to OM. No speak of the M & R. We just live life one day at a time it seems. Just happy to wake up and say. 'Life is as good as you make it, you should be happy to wake up today, Life is precious...'
See the W, Listen to the W, but dont Speak back to the W. Bridle your tongue...
