Natural to not want to be hurt again. Defense mechanisim, it is hard, don't know if he deserves a chance, but if you want your marriage stay the course. I know it is hard, every day I want to hug and kiss her and I want her to put her ring on but she doesn't. But you need to find a way and deal with it! I know you can do it, but you are hurting, maybe you should go to an IC also if you aren't already. Once you actually forgive him if you didn't give it a real chance I fear you will regret it. God Bless
Married:10 years D final 8/28/08 10 minutes is all it took Life goes on and DB was no small part in growing from the Divorce!
