It is so tough for me not to call that number. I really am dying to know why he lied to me. I have never caught him in a lie before so this is really getting to me. Our R has always been based upon trust and I totally trust him that he is not with OW at this time but that lie is just eating away at me.
He says there is no OW and that is the last thing he needs and I sincerely believed him until that lie last night. I am so confused as to what to do and I am sure I will call that number because I do not think I can let it go.
BryanS - I think that you can get it back. Just continue to DB and do not mention it and try not to act that way again. We all slip but we just need to get right back at it again and chances are it did not hurt the ground you had made that much.