Thanks Angelica,

I'm not completely sure going dark is a 180 for me. You could say that in the past I've been the type to just get cold and not talk. So I've been thinking about something, but as all the advice says, I'm going to wait 24 hrs and think about it some more.

Yeah, OK, this is right after I said I'm not chasing. So shoot me. Michelle says to experiment and observe the results, and after all, I used to be a scientist!

Since H goes to the house and checks email (according to email from Verizon, he won't be online at apt until 9/13), thought I would send an email from work, just asking "Are you OK?". I know he will probably be there today because he hasn't ridden motorcycle since last Thursday, but I'm still going to wait and think about it some more.

Calling all dbers - Any thoughts or do you just want to hit me upside the head?


In4ride
Me 50, H 55, M 17 yrs
1st Bomb Drop 12/7/03
Separated mostly in house
Come back together/H breaks back 9/04
Piecing, surgeries, recovery, H retires
2nd Bomb Drop 9/3/07 H moves out 20 min later