***She cares. Trust me, she cares if you would even kiss another woman. That is just her protecting herself.***
She might NOT care...I know my H didn't when he was in the midst of everything...I had a mild EA during his absence from our family and he knew of it...I didn't hide it from him and even accepted a phone call while he was in the car with me once...didn't phase him a bit because at THAT particular time he really didn't care...
Now that isn't to say that down the road she might not care...you see when the blinders come off...and they usually do...she will see things more clearly and realize what is going on her own life...then...she will care...and if your still standing this will show her that you really did have unconditional love for her...if you got involved with someone it will justify to her that what you both had was nothing more then a nice time for a few years...and she will move on...at minimum anyone in your life could be hurt....you or her could be hurt...anytime there is a 3rd person involved...SOMEONE is going to be hurt...
So unless and until you are totally done...KNOW with out a doubt you are finished...that there is NO chance in recovering any feelings...you don't involve another person in your life...it isn't fair...and it won't help your cause at all...
