Yes,I understand totally. Of course we all post from where we are at.
I call it the 'Smoker's syndrome' The biggest anti-smokers are usually those that have given it up.
It seems that when people call 'enough', and Lord knows that this is each person's personal decision, many become sceptical about why everyone else isn't doing the same. And who knows. They could be right. It could be that some of us haven't sen the light yet, and that we surely need to.
What I have noticed is that for many, there is no specific decision point to not stand, but a gradual letting go, so that when the WAS starts to come around the LBS realises that they have actually let go, possibly to the point of not wanting the WAS back. I suspect that I am one of these latter.
Maybe you are too. I would take one day at a time, and see how you h is in a bit. It may not take a long time for him to sort himself out . . . . Of course you are shocked and upset, and rightfully angry, although as we know getting angry with these MLCers is an exercise in futility.
Meantime, come here and post. There are worse places to be.
