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W did tell me that he was there for her and told her the things she wanted to hear.............
The trouble is that is all this OP is doing is saying things that they want to hear. Give it a few months, when things aren't so great then she would wish that she could go back to you....the man who stood by her side after she hurt you so bad. That is what is important in life...not saying the right things.

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Why do they have to destroy everything before they come to their senses?
Good question....pride, stupidity, selfishness...those are the reasons that I can think of. My XH did destroy everything, so it happens and he never did come to his senses.


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