Psch - I really do not know what to say. I am now struggling with this same sitch sort of. Last night the phone rang and I did not answer it. I checked the id and did not recognize the number so I figured it was H calling to see if we were back home yet so I did not answer. Well at 11 he called again from work (he works third shift) to see if we were home safe he said. He did question me about who went with me this weekend but he mostly asked about my family. I kept it short but he wanted to know why I did not answer earlier and I said I did not hear the phone and there was no message. He said it was him but he did not leave one so I asked how did you call if you have no phone. And he said he borrowed a friends of his phones but the number on our list of numbers does not match the number that was on the ID. Do I call the number? I am struggling with that right now. I am afraid of who will answer.
However after reading yours with the text the only thing I can say is you do not know what is going on. It is only vol that you see you do not know what is being written etc. It could be harmless and it could also be her talking to someone about you for guidance. Maybe they are just platonic friends. Then again as mentioned it could just be boosting her ego some to know someone else wants her. I say that you should just keep DB'ing and until you have concrete proof try not to think about it. I wish I could follow that advice. Do I call?
