Now really confused, please help.

Sorry not had time to post over the weekend.

Had a really good weekend. Went to a friend's party - on my own... 1st hour was tough, put I knew a few people and then more people started to talk to me. It ended up a brilliant night, great to let my hair down and enjoy myself.

Got in really late (for me), cuddled up to H. Must have fallen asleep because I woke up with him hugging upto me. No words or kisses were exchanged but H iniated LM!! Not a lot of passion, just perfunctory. I haven't read too much into it and it hasn't been mentioned since.

He was talking about a weekend away in December with a friend. He told me, not asked, but thats ok as i'm planning the same with girl friends in Feb. My question is - he hasn't left.. is he likely too? Where do i go from here? I'm hoping these are positive signs, but I'm too vulnerable and frightened to think otherwise.

Also, I can't find the post now, but somebody mentioned reading 'how to treat your husband', where do I find this?

My H is not a talker, the issues are still there, how do you start DB or piecing when he has unresolved issues.

Disappointed. xx


P/A confirmed 5/03/08

03/08 H said affair over, I dont think it is, h still doesn't want marriage

T: 13
M: 8
D:20 & 17 from Previous M
S: 8 & 4
BS: May 07 ILYBNILWY
S: 13/10/07