Thanks guys. It's hard not to get too excited about the committments she's making. As much as I would love to just having everything back to normal, I know that she still has doubts in her head and that there will be lot's more work to do if we want to get things worked out better than before.
Some new developments last night. She approached me last night ans asked if I thought she had slept with the OG. Told her I didn't believe that she had. Told her that I knew very little facts about the relationship. Only that they talked more than made me feel comfortable and that they had been to a bar together at least once. That it was more my imagination filling in the gaps.
She tells me that the OG's W has found out lots of details about my W, our R and our family. She's been trying to call my W and actually calls our house. Number doesn't come up on caller ID. I pick up the phone. She tells me her name and suggests we need to talk. I get her # and tell her I'll call her back. My W is okay with me talking to her, so I take dog for a walk and call her. Weird. She says she has some information for me and we talk for a while. Most of what she tells me I already know, with the exception of her telling me that her H just admitted to having been to a hotel with my W. Not sure if this is true. It could be, but I don't know this woman and have no reason to believe her over my W.
Anyhow, I get back to the house and tell my W about the conversation. She again confirms her committment to working the R and tells me that she will stop seeing and talking to the OG. She tells me that she has wanted to put her rings back on. I tell her that she should wait a few days since our anniversary is coming up next week. It could be a bit more symbolic if we did it then.
So things seem good for now. One day at a time right?
