I've called the lawyer and given him the preliminary info..I have an appointment to meet with him on friday afternoon..I've been asked to bring financial info (wish I had kept the tax return form that h left lying around over the summer but once he came home it mysteriously dissapeared) all of last years bill etc..for the household are in a box waiting to go up to the attic..I'll just bring the box..thing is h makes more money than shows...he after all is paying for an appartment that doesn't show up in the household $...pays for trips to the superbowl season tickets etc..that don't show up in the household..h has more money than shows up in paper...I will not be deprived of what is due to me.
if I cannot have h then at least I will have his money..which I've earned...I after all helped him start his business!!!!

h will not stop me...he doesn't know how and doesn't even know if he wants to stop me!!

LL