Hi. No we don't have any children, we have dogs. And things now have gotten worse. For the 3rd straight weekend she has left and won't me where she's going. Snd she keeps repeating that she's safe. I'm starting feel very frustrated and am considering moving out myself for a week or so to get my thoughts together. In the 2 weeks since I found out about her affair (hurts to even type the word) all I could think about was that I had to do everything in my power to not scare her away. But now I'm starting to wonder what it is that I TRULY want. I'd welcome any thoughts...

JeffV