Loretta, WOW ... can you me hear me crying, knashing of teeth, howling ... oral just for him!! and he doesn't want to do anything else?? Ohhhh, if only my dreams could come true!!! Really, it's been a long, long, long time since my wife would allow any touching of any kind and I just can't even start to understand one of my fellow man not wanting to do more to please you. I hope he opens his eyes and comes to his sences before it's too late. Please tell your husband I'll trade places with him in a heart beat! Sorry I'm not of much help, just envious. Please hang in there.
Peace my friend.