Jazz - I am interested in why you think there is litle hope of reconciliation? You have had two marriages already. For many of us here we are dealing with trying to salvage or let go of our first marriage.
Clearly you are better at moving on than many of us here, but never underestimate the powerful pull of a long single marriage, even to someone is MLC. I think Hope's recent post shows just how bound up her h is to her, emotionally, after more than 2 years. Myturnnow's h is exhbiting similar behaviour, and I have seen similar while I have been on these boards [lurking longer than my first post would suggest!]
It is never all over until the fat lady sings -sometimes the LBS decides 'Enough' and sometimes the WAS really walks, but as we knw the truth is never plain and rarely simple where deep emotional connections are concerned.
