I love that you are owning your space within your R

I remember when you took up space in your M, taking pictures off the wall, etc.

I remember in the beginning, I liked it when x took up space. It was cute, and funny, and reassuring. better then the rest who tiptoe around and sit on the edge of the couch, and are afraid and apologetic for being in your space. JC and her dogs, take up a lot of space, in my yard, in my house, in the truck, on trips, and not one of them every feels bad about it.

So if the porn itself doesnt bother you, and he is not lying about it-- which part of it does bother you?