Maybe it is too hard to stop all contact. I have tried to stop all contact with my H but then I get some lame excuse to call him about the kids' diaper bag or his change in work schedule. I mean I was supposed to only contact in case of emergency but I dialed his number! How weak am I? My D6 even drew her Dad's picture and put an X through it and taped it to the phone. She said to never call Daddy again because it just makes me cry. She is absoultely right. I used to call him with each Baby milestone and now I have to keep that to myself. I am proud of myself for not calling him more than twice per week actuALLY BUT THAT TOOK 5 MONTHS. maybe people get lonely. I know it is hurtful and wrong to contact OP after the affair should have been ended but it is an addiction. Cold turkey is ideal but very difficult obviously. I am just trying to see the POV I am not defending it or saying it is right. There are different affairs also. My H feels that he is with someone he truly needs to protect and love from us. They are becoming codependent. I have neverseen him behave like a drug addict like this so I am praying for a natural death to tis affair of five months. Only time will tell so I am staying out of it. It is a horrible process I wish on no one.
Me:38 H:39 MLC M:10 R:23 years D6 S3 Bomb: Easter, 2007 "Every day may not be good, but there's something good in every day."
