Thanks Nugget. My S4 made some additional comments about where I am before he went to bed. W was there while he did it. I didn't say anything besides making my S4 feel ok. It'll sink in for her I'm sure. My goal for this week is to stay focused on me and keep interactions and conversations with W pleasant and avoid any slipping in R talk. Visited the kids today. W is having lots of anxiety due to trying to suppress her feelings of missing me. I just gave her encouragement and support and told her to hang in there. Here's hoping I can deal with the week ok.

I actually did pretty good GAL this weekend. Went to a bar to play poker Fri night with my house mate. Never played before. Nervous as heck and had no idea what I'm doing. As luck has it I won tenth place. \:\) Beginner's luck I suppose. Hooked up with the local alumni association on Sat and watched football in a REAL nice VIP room in the back of a sports bar. Big screen TVs and couches. \:\) It was a drive though....


M: 31
W: 31
M: 7 T: 8
S:4 D:2
Bomb dropped: too many to count or remember, 12/17/07 last one
S on 9/2/07
W sent off D papers 12/31/07. Me trying to live life and hope she returns one day.

My sitch:
http://tinyurl.com/3dqw93