ok adding on here. I think this was it, the straw that broke the camel's back. I think I am officially throwing in the DB'ing towel. Yes I will still GAL, and I will ramp up my LRT. Not been doing that as well. Just for me, but I am not longer going to let H do what he is doing. For fear of pushing him in a corner, and making him angry I have bit my tongue to long. He can not do this to me or our children. I am not going to play by the rules anymore. The door is shut and I am going to stand up for myself now. Sorry guys, but I just cant do this any longer.


Kali