I had to laugh at this one "Today a mutual friend told me that H's new nickname where he works is "Playboy Troy". Blehhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh." My XH just got a new blackberry and proudly displayed his screen saver as some playmate of the year..OMG..He is pathetic. He asked me where "he could find her?"..always trying for a reaction..
Oh, the best part..When OW saw the pic she threw his new blackberry against a wall.
Yeah, they can be playboys, alright. He used to read them, too..Always commenting about this one and that one..Finally, I said to him take them out the house..I was not into them laying around here at all..No thanks..
Caz and W8ing..thanks so much for the kudos..I just wanted to give you all some advice as to what has worked for me..
Well, Xh spent most of his day at my house while I wasn't here..so weird..
He had the kids last night so New Guy and I could go out. I tried to get a game plan this morning as to what time they would be home to no avail. So I went out to breakfast with New Guy and started my day.
Next thing I know my D is calling me from home and says that Daddy is all cozy on the front porch reading the Sunday paper..
WTF??
He used to do that ALL THE TIME pre-bomb..
And, he is backing his car in the driveway pulling it all the way up when he comes to get the kids and wants to hang out.
It's like he is staking his territory again..So weird and I have to admit, annoying..
This occurs after he texts me that I am to get the kids passports done yesterday..I then asked him to discuss his plans to take them to an island and he said nope, don't have to. He refused to discuss his plans with the kids..Well, he's not taking them if that's the case..oh well..
I am glad he wants to do something with the kids but his behavior is so erratic with me that I don't think he is stable..well, I use that term loosely in a sentence with his name, anyway..
Just read Hopefloasts post. Wow..what a day she had..Ya know, I think it is wonderful that she posted her conversation with WAS..You all should go read it..
So much of what I read on her post came from my XH..
He has said..
He is sorry..OW was just there..That he probably wouldn't have left it it weren't for her but he was way out there..He needed to feel needed..I think I posted this all before but I wanted to reiterate that once these MLCers statt to think more clearly it's AMAZING to how much pain they are in..still. I guess it's even moreso since they see all the damage they have done so it's just not all about their depression..It's about the consequences of the behavior caused by the depression.
So, XH is one minute texting me crap and I don't respond..Well, I did sort of..I said have a nice day sunshine..I have decided that whenever he is bullying me I will have that standard reply..It shut him up, that's for sure. He is not used to me not responding that way.
Well, on a brighter note..
I START MY NEW JOB TOMORROW!!
I am such a geek..I tried on my outfit so it's all hung up ready to go. My briefcase is stocked with supplies and such leaning up against my bedroom wall..And I can't sleep I am so excited..
I decided to have the kids call me Professor as it is more collegiate than Mrs. so and so. When I was in school, I never called any of my teachers other than Professor.
I am going to WET MY PANTS WHEN I HEAR THAT..I feel like an imposter already.
Well, it's 12:25 a.m. so I had better go nighty night. I need to make sure I don't wear two different shoes or my shirt inside out so I better not be tired.
(btw..I was in Ann Taylor trying on clothes today and I went to go pay for my shirts and the nice cashier girl told me I had my shirt on inside out..Nice..huh?) Do ya think I was excited to bust out of the dressing room to buy work clothes for the first time in ten years? Do ya think?
