Psch, I posted this on your other thread, but it appears to me you made the comments you made, not because a divorce and a finalization of the marriage is what you want. But, you said them as a shack factory to try to can some control of your sit, since you are so uncertain where it is going. By you telling her that you want to start to finalize things, you were hoping she would say great I agree or, no I do not want that. You were hoping for some concrete answer, which unfortunately, you do not have nor does she.
“Do you want to be RIGHT or want to be LOVED” “You have to have a life to share a life with someone” “When you stop resisting, you start learning”