Hope is a lot so don't give up on hope. As Michele says, It is never too late to try to save your marriage. Texts, shmtexts. I have called my ex also distraught over my H. That really does not mean anything but it is nice to have an ego boost. Would I hook up with him, who knows but again, a happy husband is extremely hard to leave. Women leave for a variety of reasons, ya know. Don't give her another one. Here would be my reasons to leave my H:1. His depression 2. Infidelity 3. Cussing 4. Deceit Other than that, I would put up with a lot, wouldn't you? A lot of people get tempted by OP if they feel low self esteem or if they lose respect for their spouse so do not giver her that ammunition. It is not about pride at this point. It is about you showing her you can be happy with or without her. She can join you on the happy road to marital bliss or lead a life of destitution, if so she has issues and needs a therapist.
Me:38 H:39 MLC M:10 R:23 years D6 S3 Bomb: Easter, 2007 "Every day may not be good, but there's something good in every day."