My struggle is simple - I am distraught at the thought (I have the proof re text volume) that she and her ex are planning to be together - no I did not see the texts content, but I know deep in my heart that if it is that, then this is done and dusted - and so keeping DBing with hope is almost impossible.

How do I deal with that thought?


Me - 39
W - 33
M - 5yrs
Bomb - 8/5 2007
Moving out - 9/8 2007