Thoughts on phone calls

[BryanS]

I have yet another question: what are some of the ways you use to recover from making a mistake? For example, one of the things I have been working on is being more trusting and less needy. Today I flew to FL for a business trip and the hotel we're in is right on the beach. Made me miss W so I called and said it's really nice and it would be nicer if she were here with me. I know, big mistake. So, how do I recover that ground? I know I need to go back to my program and be independent, I'm just afraid that I lost some ground here in her eyes. FYI, we're kind of long distance dating right now. My visit with her went very well but she still has a lot of fear and uncertainty about the future, how this will work and if the changes will become permanent for me. I'm very much in a "prove it to her" kind of phase. Thanks in advance for the input.