Part of the agreement we have now is that H will see D1.5 in this house and will not be shuffled to H's apartment.

H watches her in this house 2x/week. That is when he sneaks the laundry into the house.

I am going to start with the little stuff. It will make him mad. Then I can introduce the other stuff which will make him madder.

It is not going to draw us closer but it is definitely setting firmer boundaries and I think that is good. Who knows?


M: 16 years
Bomb 4/07
OW 20s long gone
Divorced 11/09
I remarried New Guy
Cooperative r w/X regarding D