Well, it seems like things are progressing normally. One step forward, two back, two forward, one back. hang in there. Even when there is a lot of forward movement and you think you're on an even keel, something will inevitably happen and you'll question everything all over again. I don't have any great advice, I would just suggest that you evaluate when you get positive responses from her and then try to repeat the behavior. I noticed in your post that when you left for the weekend and gave her some space she let you know that she missed you. That's a positive thing. I also think it's great about Retrouvaille. Keep noticing the positives and then repeat your behavior...
You sound a lot better!
Me: 34 H: 39 M: 7 yrs H A 12/05-8/07
If what you say surprises me, I must have been assuming something else was true. - M. Wheatley