"Why do you feel the need to be "nice" with regard to that? If he doesn't feel the inconvenience what is his motive for re-thinking his actions."

I didn't feel the need to be nice so much as I did not realize just how little I was asking. As I said, I have always made more money than H and I was surprised by how much H would have to pay, when I ran numbers on state web site.

As far as the laundry, I have been annoyed but have no way to enforce it. H kind of sneaks it in here as it is.

His big hue and cry: I don't HAVE any money and you have all this money (which, it should be said, does not mean limitless funds, just a nice salary) and you expect ME to pay?


M: 16 years
Bomb 4/07
OW 20s long gone
Divorced 11/09
I remarried New Guy
Cooperative r w/X regarding D