I possed the same question when I had my fist MC session. I went into it not knowing b/c I had not talked with W in a few weeks. Mine did not go as I had hoped, but we did work out some arrangemens about the kids and sharing the house a week at a time.
I also got the spewing crap
Good luck
"Worry is the price you pay for most of the things in life that never happen"
