Thank you so much. After reading your thread tonight I identified very well with all you had said. I agree with you about not wanting to wait for something that might not ever happen at all. Once I got myself away from the situation I became exposed to so much more. Good people; happy people that do not act like this. It made me realize there could be more to my life than being a LBS. Like you, I don't think I can ever say that this was for the best. I lost. My H lost more. Families were hurt. But I am trying to make lemonade out of lemons...or something like that. hugs, Hope
Most of us really marry only once. First love endures, even unto our dying day. And we never really divorce.
