I should have really titled the thread "Mediation" rather than MC.
I am approaching it from a standpoint of tackling practical issues via mediation, with the hope that it might lead to other issues that might benefit us.
So it is mediation that I see as prior to LS.
M: 16 years Bomb 4/07 OW 20s long gone Divorced 11/09 I remarried New Guy Cooperative r w/X regarding D