Alright I have seen her new place. Not to bad, but smaller than here. She has the kids room fixed up pretty nice. We actually had a fairly decent exchange. She told me that she has everything that she wants, which is good.
I am changing the locks tonight. I am doing this for my own peace of mind, and in a sense it does protect her to. If something does come up missing, well I know that she does not have access anymore.
I am really thinking that I am going to back off on the R talk, as suggested. Perhaps it is for the best? I have told her already that I did want to talk to her though........ Perhaps I could use that time to just, I dont know, lay some ground work??? "So how are you doing?" I also did still want to suggest that Retrovaille thing to her, and there is a time limit on when I need to register for it.
Let me tell all of you this. There has not been any talk other than about our child in over 4 months here. Perhaps I went to the LRT too soon? Maybe at least trying to open up some sort of dialouge is not the worst idea I ever had? Being as dark as I have been is certainly starting to look like a cheeseless tunnel here.....
What I do need to think about, and think hard is about how I want to approach it. I know if I go in with a list of ultimatums and demands will definatly be the wrong approach. These are the things I need to think about. I know I actually feel a little better after I dropped our girl off, and we had a short but civil discussion. Things to think about.
Right now I am putting my house back together. My neighbors gave me an old dining set that was in there basement. When they first showed it to me, all covered with dust, it did not look so good. But I cleaned it up and it is a nice set (Eathan Allen) Looks great with a table cloth over it!!
