Hope,
Though it may not feel like it, this is actually a good thing. in order for him to heal, he has to face these realities. This is the first step in his recovery.

Clearly he respects and loves you and feels badly about what he did for you. But like you've always said, he has too much guilt to try to make it work. But that is some of what he needs to work on now.

How great that he opened up to you. He knows you are there for him.


Married 9 years
Kids 5 and 6
Bomb 2006
H back and forth for a year
M now back on track