So if he got the job you all would have move as a family. I want to clarify because when you mentioned this I figured he did not want to move from you. I think Marriage Builders does mention the success rate of a R post infidelity is increased when th efamily physically moves from the affair to get over the addiction. But what if he is a serial cheater. I know every story is different. You may be emotional because that ML is emotional not just physical for us gals. Sometimes it is for fun but sometimes it is for intimacy and you are lacking intimacy with him because he has put up this road block of deception. You have been open and he has been closed and that feels unfair. However, you still have passion and you are not numb nor is he. That is such a big deal. He wants to be with you and you are the wondeful mother of his children. For me, now my H will move to his new job with his new OW and leave us behind, even his beloved children.


Me:38 H:39 MLC
M:10 R:23 years
D6 S3
Bomb: Easter, 2007
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